Helping Students Thrive: A Therapist’s Guide for School Counselors
School counselors are the first line of defense when a student is struggling emotionally, socially, or academically. You build trust with students daily, often being the first adult they turn to when life feels overwhelming. But what happens when your toolbox of strategies isn’t enough, and a student needs more individualized support?
As a therapist specializing in children and adolescents, I understand how critical our partnership can be. When school counselors and therapists work together, we create a wraparound system of care that helps students thrive.
Here are five signs that a student may benefit from outside therapy:
Frequent emotional outbursts or shutdowns that don't improve with in-school strategies.
Ongoing signs of anxiety or depression, such as withdrawal, tearfulness, or perfectionism.
Family stress or trauma (e.g., divorce, illness, loss) affecting the student’s behavior.
Disruptive behavior patterns beyond classroom norms that interfere with learning.
Social challenges or bullying that persist despite interventions.
When these red flags persist, therapy can provide deeper support, including coping skills, emotional regulation, and a safe space to process life events.
What therapy offers that complements school counseling:
Weekly sessions to address underlying emotional challenges
Family involvement when needed
Coordination (with consent) to support academic plans or behavioral goals
If you're seeing signs that a student may need more than what the school setting can provide, I welcome the opportunity to connect. Together, we can ensure every child has the tools they need to succeed emotionally, socially, and academically.
Let’s work together this school year. Referrals and consultations are available. Contact me directly to discuss support for your students.
